I keep seeing it is supposed to be in this drop down but I appear to be missing something.
@TylerWolf Are you finding cross sell products ? If so then it comes into product, edit and product then on left find Cross sell products tab.
I can find cross sell products. I am working through MagentoU and this is where they show that it is. Is it only in enterprise and not community?
In Community Edition the only way to achieve this functionality is to use third part extension.